3 Powerful Flirting Techniques For Those In The Friend Zone

Can you guess the #1 reason why guys just like you get put in the friend zone?

Well, according to an informal survey that I conducted, men get put in the friend zone 75% of the time because they didn't flirt enough.

So if you recently got put in the friend zone, one of the first things that you need to do is to brush up your skills in flirting.

But what if you've never learned how to flirt before? That's OK -- that's what this article is here for.

Technique #1: Holding Eye Contact

If at least 53% of all communication is body language (voice tonality is 30% and the actual words is only 7%), then at least half of that is eye contact.

It's quite shocking how so many men find it DIFFICULT to hold eye contact with women they like! You come across as distant and insincere even if that's the last thing that you want to appear -- making it difficult for women to relate to you, much more feel in touch with you.

If you have a difficult time holding eye contact, one of the techniques that I discuss in "Escaping The Friend Zone" is to focus on her eyebrows instead of her eyes. This has an effect of you looking at her eyes even if you're not.

Don't use this as a crutch, though -- you SHOULD learn how to hold eye contact with everyone you converse with. Just use this technique whenever you find yourself having a difficult time with eye contact.

Technique #2: Touching

Think about the last time you met a woman who was very "touchy." How did you feel?

Years ago, I remember I got introduced to a woman by a friend of mine. She was average in looks -- nothing special, really. But she was very touchy. It had a subtle effect, but I felt that I was really liked. Plain and simple, it felt good to be around her.

Her looks didn't change, but I soon started developing feelings of attraction towards her. I didn't act upon it, but it was enjoyable flirting back and forth with someone that you're attracted to.

By being comfortable with casual touching, you give off a vibe that you really like the person you're talking to. Done right, it makes people feel comfortable around you. It gives off a good aura that people want to be around.

What's the problem? Most guys simply don't touch enough!

Start touching her casually. When you shake hands, hold her hand just a tad bit longer before letting go. Touch her on the elbow when you want to get her attention. Touch her arm whenever you acknowledge something she said. Give her a hug when you first see her or when you're saying bye.

This will do wonders for your relationships with women in general.

Technique #3: Flirtatious Teasing

Remember back when you were seven or eight years old and you liked a girl? You didn't do any of that romantic stuff with her -- no, what you did was tease her to no avail. Well, teasing is still as effective today as it was back then -- probably even more so, because if you do it right, most girls know when you're flirting with them anyway.

There's a lot of different ways to tease women -- and all of them are fun. Just pretend that she's a younger sister that you've never had. If she says something dumb, tell her that you've taken away her talking privileges. Call her out whenever she says something with the slightest sexual innuendo -- or better yet, say something back along the same lines. Give her playful nicknames. It's all in being playful.

Summary

These three techniques can greatly improve your chances of getting out of the friend zone if you do it right. Learn them, and apply them with every opportunity that you can. Not only will you increase the chances that she'll fall for you, but you will also get better with women in general.

For more information on flirting techniques, read Volumes 1 and 2 of "Get Out Of The Friend Zone" here.

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