"Who Else Wants To Turn A Friend Into Your Lover And Get Out Of The Friend Zone By Following 4 Easy Fool-Proof Steps?"

Out of the hundred emails I get from readers on a regular basis, there are three common themes that I see all the time:

• “I want to make her my girlfriend, but she says she doesn’t see me in that way...”

• “I’m always stuck in the friend zone!”

• “I’m friends with her and want to take things to the next level, but I’m afraid to make a move because she might reject me, and other guys always beat me to the punch...”

Here's a screenshot of one of the emails I've received from a reader a few months ago...

So if you:

• Are romantically interested and falling madly for an attractive female friend who you thought you had a great connection with but she tells you that she “just wants to be friends”...

• Are just starting to get close with a woman, and just as you think you’re doing really well, she blatantly tells you that you’re "just like a brother to me”...

• Broke down and confessed your real feelings to her, and now she doesn’t even want to talk to you...

• Have tried to be more than just friends by asking her out on a romantic date, but she tells you that she “doesn’t want to risk our friendship”...

• Met a girl who you know could possibly be THE one and really want to tell her how you feel -- until she tells you that she “met this really great guy last night”...

...Then this is possibly the most important thing you'll ever read.

In a few moments, I’ll show you how you can make that special girl your loving girlfriend and stay out of the friend zone FOREVER, but before that let me share with you a frightening statistic that I’ve discovered in my experience...

And most of the time, the girl thinks that he’s “a nice guy, but I just don’t see you in that way...”

What goes wrong? Why do so many good-hearted men go through months of effort of trying to make a girl his girlfriend, only to have his dreams crushed with a thoughtless, one-line response? And what’s even worse, he tries to get out of the “friend zone” but has completely no support from his “friends” and “buddies”.

If you’ve ever felt helpless when trying to make a girl your girlfriend, then you can understand how it’s like to be in that situation and know the frustration of failure that comes with it.

So how exactly do you go about turning a friend into a girlfriend, especially after she’s made it clear that she doesn’t have the same feelings for you? After all...

If you’re reading this right now, you know what I’m talking about. You’ve probably tried a whole bunch of “tactics” that just didn’t work (and probably made the situation worse), such as:

• The “Perfect Boyfriend” tactic. I’ve tried to play the ultimate nice guy in hopes that she would come to her senses and realize that I was THE man she was looking for.

• The “Movie Moment” tactic. I’ve tried to sweep her off her feet by manufacturing a movie moment and confess to her how madly in love I am with her and I cant stop thinking about her.

• The “Wait For The Perfect Time” tactic. I’ve tried to wait it out until I had the perfect opportunity to swoop in, hoping that she’ll eventually realize that I’m the right man for her.

• The “Logical Persuasion” tactic. I’ve tried to have a heart-to-heart talk with her friends so they could convince her that I’m the right choice for her.

• The “Make Her Green With Envy” tactic. I’ve tried to show her what she’s missing out on by flirting with every girl in sight, sometimes making up stories in attempt to make her jealous.

• The “Pity Me” tactic. I even tried blatantly showing her my depression in hopes that she’ll feel sorry enough for me to give me a chance.

...all of these DO NOT WORK if you want to get out of the friend zone and make her your girlfriend!

Believe me, I know; I’ve been there many times! I need more than ten fingers to count all the instances that I got rejected. It’s been a real struggle, and I understand your frustrations and how it’s like to keep asking myself, “Am I ever going to overcome this?”

After failing and getting heartbroken again and again, I knew exactly what NOT to do.. ... And was able to figure out what you SHOULD do if you want to get out of the friend zone by process of elimination.

It all started with the movie, “Meet Joe Black.”

I was watching that movie with Jessica and a few other friends on a Friday night.

My heart was pounding at my chest at what seemed like 200 beats per minute because I was holding her hand for the very first time in my life. I couldn’t believe my luck -- she was actually holding MY hand back. Everything was going according to plan.

I waited until there was a quiet lull in the movie. “Should I do it now?” I asked myself. “OK, I think the time is right now. I have to do it now. I’m going to do it. God help me.”

But when I leaned over to go for a kiss --

“Wait,” she said as she backed off and pulled her hand away. “What are you doing?”

Oh. Shit. No. #$@%ing. Way. This. Is. Not. Happening.

"I, well, uh..." I struggled to find the right words to mutter, and couldn’t even look her in the eye. It was probably the longest ten seconds of my life.

“Look, I’m sorry,” she cut me off. “I like you, but... Just not in that way. I think it would be better for both of us if we just stayed as friends, okay? I’m sorry.”

And she was serious.

Over the next few months, I watched in the sidelines as she would excitedly tell me about a new guy she’s met. I would hear the excruciating details of their sexual intimacy as I tried my hardest not to replay it inside my head.

And I would be the one to console her and make her feel better whenever she came crying after that same jerk would leave her and break her heart a few weeks after.

It would’ve been okay if this was the last time I had to go through this, but no. For several years, this would be a recurring theme in my life. Woman after woman, I would end up in the dreaded friend zone.

I’ve been rejected many, many more times after that first experience.

“Let’s just be friends” must have pierced my heart over ten times, easily.

It was ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE for my self-confidence, because I felt worse and worse about myself after every rejection. It amazed me how empty and lonely I felt inside despite being surrounded by tons of people. There’s only so much heartbreak that a man can take, after all.

I wondered what it was that the other guys had that I didn’t.

I wasn’t bad looking...

I didn't have any gross grooming habits...

I was a nice guy and treated girls wonderfully (just like all the good guys in the movies)...

They say that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and somehow expecting a different result.

So out of my sheer frustration, I carefully analyzed EVERY SINGLE SITUATION when girls rejected me and wrote down ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING I could remember.

This included restaurants, types of dates, how I asked her out, even text messages I sent. I'm talking every single detail that could come to mind -- I decided to take a very scientific approach to fixing my woman problems.

What I had at the end was a diary of some sorts that broke down my love life into every little detail.

I had an extensive list of things that I’ve tried over and over but simply didn’t work. And I’m talking a massive list of advice that other women, books, magazines, movies, etc. gave me that just didn’t work out.

I was a student of social psychology, so I simply tried out new things that I haven’t done yet and wrote down the results I would get. I succeeded a bit, and I failed even more.

But bit by bit, I was discovering little tricks that would work to my advantage.

I found ways to ask her out on a date that would make her say yes. I discovered jokes that would make unresponsive women smile. I came across the right compliments that would make her feel sexy without coming off as a perverted creep.

It took A LOT of trial and error, but what do you know...

Before you knew it, I stopped hearing “let’s just be friends” from women I liked.

It wasn’t long until the women who rejected me before started looking at me differently. They would say things like, “I don’t know what you did, but there’s something different about you.”

I started getting phone numbers...

Phone numbers became dates...

Dates became flings...

And flings became intimate girlfriends...

Or sometimes, hot, passionate one-night stands :)

Finally, I was able to feel like a real man knowing that I had a very good chance to make a woman mine if I wanted to!

It took a while before it hit me, but one day I found myself quite amazed that I actually stumbled upon a system that worked -- something that allowed to me to transform my geeky self to a real man that women actually desired to be with.

You DO NOT Have To Make The Same Mistakes That I Did...

What if I told you that you can save yourself from making the very mistakes that will eventually CEMENT you in the friend zone?

How would you like to finally put an end to months of frustration waiting for her to come around and realize that you're the right one for her?

What if you could save yourself from the embarassment of trying to make her yours, only to be rejected with lousy excuses when you finally make your move?

How would you like to be able to change her perception of you from "just a friend" to a sexy and confident man that, if given the chance, she would not hesitate to be with?

Sounds good, doesn't it?

My friend, I'm telling you right now that YOU CAN DO THIS. And I'm about to show you how.

I made a crucial revelation when I realized that I was going about it in the completely wrong direction.

While I was looking for one-time solutions to magically turn around a woman’s perception of me, what I really needed was to pinpoint my exact mistakes I’ve made and take precise steps to correct them over time, one by one.

If those mistakes aren’t corrected, then NOTHING you do will even stand a chance of turning around your situation and making her realize that you are the one for her.

Through trial and error, I’ve discovered that these mistakes can be corrected one by one by analyzing the situation within a master strategy that consists of just 4 steps.

What more, I found out that every tactic can and will work -- as long as these 4 steps are executed to perfection.

Years of experience, heartbreak and trial and error has been condensed into this really easy to follow system so unfortunate men who are “just friends” with the woman of their dreams can easily break out of the friend zone, slowly but surely.

Every man who wishes to turn a friend into a girlfriend MUST go through these four phases man if he wants to have a shot at getting out of the friend zone.

I’ll warn you right now -- some of these are unconventional techniques; a “dark arts” of some sort.

I actually don’t feel right putting this method out there in the open in fear that it will fall in the wrong hands. I don’t play with people’s emotions and do not have any respect for anybody who chooses to use this system you’re about to discover for harm. But because I believe that man is inherently good, I went against my reluctance and put this system out in the open.

This 4 step process allowed me to fully understand how attraction works for a woman. By following this step by step, I’m able to do two things fairly consistently:

1.) I have never been put in the friend zone ever again by a woman I’ve pursued, or

2.) In the rare occassion that I did make a wrong turn while I’m pursuing a girl, I managed to escape the friend zone under the guidance of this system.

Here it is.

Phase 1: “Destroy And Rebuild -- How To Transform Yourself Into The Sexy, Confident And Attractive Man That Every Woman Secretly Desires To Be With"

Recovering from a friend zone situation starts with reconstructing a woman’s perception of you.

If you fucked up with a woman you’re romantically interested in by confessing how you feel for her, or saying or making a sexual gesture and got rejected, then you need to start here.

You need to rebuild yourself into a new man -- or at least, make her see you as one. Why? Because her CURRENT perception of you is someone that she wouldn’t date. The only way that you can change that perception is if she think that you’ve “changed” and transformed yourself into someone that she would.

Now, this sounds like it takes a lot of effort -- but it really doesn’t! All it takes is making simple changes that would trigger her curiosity, and believe me, this is a lot easier than it looks like.

Phase 2: “The First 15 Minutes -- How To Make Her See The New You And Turn Her Casual Indifference Into Serious Interest"

Once you have made the changes to yourself in Phase 1, now we get to the big guns.

Now that you’ve reinvented yourself, it is now time to reinvent your first impression with a woman. This is a critical factor in getting women attracted to you and avoiding the friend zone from this point forward.

You know how they say that first impressions last? Our focus here would be to recreate her first impression with the new you.

There are certain things that a man can do to turn any woman’s indifference into interest... And I’m going to share these very secrets with you.

Phase 3: “Amplifying Attraction -- How To Turn Her Casual Interest Into Near Obsession So That She Won’t Be Able To Stop Thinking Of You Even If She Tried”

While the techniques in Phase 2 are carefully designed to intrigue her and make her want to see more of what you have, this phase is designed to make her want to get with you.

We’re talking high-octane psychological techniques that are designed to kick her mind levels into OVERDRIVE and make her start thinking of you at every chance she can get.

You actually have to be a little careful with the techniques during this phase. You can get her to really go crazy for you if you do the techniques right. I have been negligent at times and ended up having to break a few hearts myself... And knowing how painful rejection is, I hate doing that to women.

This is probably the most valuable section in this system. If you made her interested in you during Phase 2, Phase 3 will really turn things around for your situation. Don't be surprised if people will start approaching you and asking if the two of you have something going on that nobody knows about.

Phase 4: “Closing The Deal -- How To Finally Make Her Exclusively Yours, Once And For All"

If you completed the first three phases with relative success, this phase should be a piece of cake for cake.

Simply speaking, phase 4 deals actually getting her to act on those desires you’ve been generating in her mind during the past two phases.

You would think that once you’ve done all the right things and made her WANT you, everything will fall into place and things will go happily ever after. But yet, so many guys fumble at this last-minute, “buzzer-beater” play that it’s very important you get this right.

They mess up at the MOST CRUCIAL moments like during the first kiss.. the make out... Or even sex.

Most of the time, these fumbles happen simply because they end up reverting to their old selves that we worked so hard to develop in Phase 1. With the secrets that I will reveal, these errors and mistakes will be virtually impossible to make, and she WILL be exclusively yours -- once and for all.

How The System Is Completely Different From The Average One-Shot Technique You See On The Internet: A Sample Scenario

Let’s run through a scenario here so you can see how every tactic has its place under this 4 phase process.

There are plenty of tips and techniques on how to get out of the friend zone. A simple Google search will give you hundreds and thousands of results.

And guess what? Almost all of those techniques work -- but only if applied properly and at the right time.

One of the tips I constantly see is, “Start acting like a boyfriend and treating her like a girlfriend” (You will even see this technique listed at one of the trusted “authority” dating websites for men)

I’m not going to pretend that this technique doesn’t work -- it does. But only if you know WHEN to apply it.

Scenario 1:

Let’s say there’s a girl that you’re that you’re friends with. You couldn’t take being just friends with her anymore, so when the time felt right you actually confessed that you’re madly in love with her.

But she casually rejects you, telling you that she just doesn’t see you in that way and she would like to stay friends. Heartbroken, you agree, because having her as a friend would be better than not having her at all. Besides, you have a grand plan to sweep her off her feet later on.

What do you do from this point on?!

At this point you only have two or three options, and the ABSOLUTE LAST THING you want to do is to start acting like her boyfriend!

It would be SUICIDE to ask her out on romantic dates in the hopes of changing her mind. Following the “Treat her like a girlfriend” advice AT THIS STAGE will make her run away faster than Usain Bolt did at the 100 meter dash!

Why? There is NO convincing a woman that she should be with you once you’ve been put in the friend zone. Showing her that you’re a sweet, gentle and caring man, buying her gifts, writing her romantic letters and poetry... All that stuff WILL NOT WORK.

Realize this: getting put in the friend zone is a sign of one major flaw in your approach, and that is the lack of sexual attraction.

And without a foundation of sexual attraction, ANY sort of romantic gestures in attempt to sweep her off her feet will simply come across as try-hard and cheesy.

Once a girl is physically and emotionally attracted to you, there is almost nothing that you can do wrong -- then AND ONLY THEN will treating her like a girlfriend be able to Amplify Attraction and Close The Deal. It is a technique that falls in between Phase 3 and Phase 4 of the system.

As I said above, EVERY technique has its own place within this 4 phase system. Carefully examine your relationship with her with these 4 steps and pinpoint where you went wrong. It is only after you conduct a thorough inspection and correct those mistakes will you be able to stand a chance at getting her to see you in a romantic and sexual way.

Take your time to reread the last four paragraphs and REALLY digest that very important tidbit of knowledge that I just gave you.

This has literally taken me years of heartbreak before I realized the sheer simplicity of it all. Use my experience to your advantage.

As a matter of fact, I want to show you the sheer power of this system and give you three techniques that you can put to good use IMMEDIATELY.