How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone With The Mixed Messages Technique

If you're struggling to find ways of how to get out of the friend zone, then there's one strategy that will prove itself to be very useful -- and that's the strategy of giving her mixed messages.

Here's how it works:

Mystery (and the element of mystery as a whole) is a big turn-on for most, if not all, women. Why? Women are curious creatures who want to understand what they don't -- and they also want to "correct" the bad ones (taming the tiger, if you may).

And if a man is proving himself to be mysterious and difficult-to-understand, she will spend a lot of her time trying to understand him. Mysterious men cause a lot of curiosity and intrigue in women; making her spend hours thinking about him and getting infatuated with him in the process!

Try this simple experiment next time you're in conversation with a woman. If you have female friends, try to listen in whenever she starts chatting about a guy she doesn't understand. Notice how women love analyzing two things: what he says, and what he does (and at the same time, blabber about how they feel about the entire situation ;p ). You'll often hear comments like:

"I don't understand my boyfriend. He told me that Valentines Day isn't a big deal for him, but he went out of his way to take me to a very special candlelight dinner and gave me this amazing bracelet as a gift! What do you think he means by that?"

So how can YOU cause the same amount of curiosity and intrigue in a woman you like? It's simple!

All you have to do is SAY one thing and DO the exact opposite, and hint at your desire for her in the process.

For example, one of my favorite techniques is to downplay my interest in her, however my actions prove otherwise. I stress how I think that she's a really good friend, or how lucky I am to be friends with her -- I basically put her in the friend zone with me. I also say things like, "I don't really like going out of the way for women who I'm not in a relationship with... I believe that women are just as capable as men are, and don't really need special treatment from me!" (I really do believe this, so it works for me.)

But my secret is that I then turn around do things that guys wouldn't do for a woman they're just friends with -- go out of my way to pick her up or drop her home, for example.

What does this little mystery move do? She ends up thinking inside her head, "Wait, he said he doesn't like doing special things for women unless she's his girlfriend. Well, that was a very nice thing for him to do for me... What could he possibly mean by that?"

And then the process of intrigue and wonder begins. My friend, this is a very powerful technique if you're trying to get out of the friend zone.

Here's a powerful technique for the flirtatious and daring:

If you're a little bit on the flirtatious side, try this technique: Tell her that you hate her perfume because you can't stop yourself from smelling it since it drives you crazy. Jokingly tell her that she absolutely must not wear it around you anymore because you're scared that you will "ruin" the friendship. There is some very serious psychological tricks in play with that technique -- use it with absolute caution!

If you're on a mission to get out of the friend zone, then try the technique of mixed messages and start hinting at your desire for her today. Do this enough, and she will start thinking if she should be in a relationship with you. If you want to accelerate the process and get a guaranteed way to make her yours in half the time, click here and get your free books to discover a fool-proof system to turn a friend into a girlfriend.

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